BEST DECISION . Life is full of decisions…everyone knows that because we all have to make them everyday. Now there’s the simple logic behind decision making that most people are aware of such as – every action has a reaction, and there is a consequence whether good or bad for every decision where the outcome is usually based upon what we choose to do. For so long now I’ve heard a pretty common yet popular phrase, “Do the RIGHT thing…” and everything will work out positively in your favor. Now even if things don’t work out your way you still did what was right. Well the only problem when trying to determine what is right and wrong, is just that – determining what is “right” and “wrong”. So the obvious question is how do we know what’s “Right” and what’s “Wrong”?
More often then not I’ve found that when people play the game in their head of what’s right or wrong to help them make a decision, they are often really trying to see what they can get away with. How close to the line can i get with out crossing it? Is it really wrong and if so, how can i justify it to make it right…in my head? are you really concerned with doing what’s right, or convincing yourself you did the right thing? I’ve found through what I’ve read, talking with others, and personal experience that if you want to live the best life possible, simply break it down to every decision. If you look at things and make your decisions on a “Good, Better, Best” scale and not be concerned with what’s right or wrong but what’s the absolute best, you will at least have a fail proof equation to living the best life possible.
The only thing that you have to do after figuring out what the best decision is…stick with your decision and execute it. If you have some decisions to make and would like help determining what would be best, I would love to hear from you. Please feel free to email me at JACOBGARDNER@LIVE.COM or send me a direct message on facebook at www.facebook.com/jacobngardner . My hope is that this will encourage you and prepare you for the decisions you have ahead and I wish you all the best towards living the best life possible.
PS – Nobody ever says i want to live a mediocre life…if you find yourself this week trying to justify a wrong when you know what’s right, stop yourself and change the scale. Ask yourself what’s good, what’s better and what’s the best…Best!
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